Izvor: Mondo, 18.Sep.2016, 10:50   (ažurirano 02.Apr.2020.)

Poruka u kojoj će se pronaći sve mame

Jedna isrpljena mama napisala je kroz šta prolazi tokom neprospavanih noći dok njenoj bebi rastu zubi. U njenom iskustvu pronaći će se svaka mama.

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  Džuls Kofi napravila je Instagram nalog New Mums The Word, gde piše o svojim iskustvima tokom odrastanja njene jednogodišnje ćerkice.

Svoje pratioce obavestila je o još jednoj neprospavanoj noći, dok njenoj ćerki raste četvrti zubić.

"Ne bih se iznenadila >> Pročitaj celu vest na sajtu Mondo << da je neko od komšija sinoć prijavio neželjeni plač bebe policiji. 'Ne, ne, sve je u redu, hvala vam, ali ako biste mogli da me uhapsite da bih samo malo odspavala u ćeliji'", našalila se mama.

Džuls kaže da njena ćerka ne prestaje da plače, zbog čega je cele noći budna, probala je na razne načine da je umiri, ali ništa ne pomaže.

Njen post privukao je druge mame, koje dobro znaju kako je to kada mališanima rastu zubi

Ova mama kaže da je probala sve - pevala joj, puštala joj crtać, izvodila napolje da traži ptičice, pa čak je u dva sata ujutru pustila da se igra sa psom.

"To su sve stvari koje inače ne radi, ali kada vaše dete nešto boli, pa ono nekontrolisano plače kao nikad ranije, je*e vam se za sve", kaže Džuls.

You know when you're really tired & you have to close one eye to focus. Kinda like half of you is at least napping? That's me typing this. I wouldn't have been surprised if the Neighbours reported an unattended crying infant to the police last night. "No no officer all is fine thank you, but if you could possibly arrest me so I could grab some sleep in the holding cell that would be tops". See said child was not left to cry she was cuddled, rocked, patted, sang to, taken out into the loungeroom to watch wiggles, taken outside to look for birdies (all might I add I don't ever do because all of the above I am opposed to but when your child is in pain like that and screaming uncontrollably like never before - zero fucks will be given) given water, given 3 bottles, given Panadol, given gel, kissed, loved, changed nappy, changed clothes, put in with the dog (she was STOKED at 2am).Sometimes NOTHING WORKS.Sometimes you just have to do what you gotta do to SURVIVE.Although I don't look like I survived.Tooth 4 has cracked & is swollen, she has a ulcer on her tongue from chewing down on it & life is just a bit shit for her.It breaks your heart to see them like that. I'm a tough one for routine & not giving in but it's all irrelevant in circumstances like last night.So many emotions involved as a parent when your child is in distress.Empathy, sadness, frustration, resentment.I went from saying "my poor girl it's ok" to "stop, you are being silly now, calm down mummy has had enough!" She was tired.I was tired.Daddy was tired.The dog was tired. I'm sure the Neighbours were tired.So to women out there who have had these moments of utter exhaustion & despair, when you feel like you are going to crack, you are not alone.We are all human, it's normal to go through all the emotions when these tiny people are so reliant on you. It's physically (seriously though my arms & back think they have done a pump class) & emotionally draining.You have just got to do what you have to do in the moment & not be afraid to ask for help (MY GOD ADAM GET UP & GET THE FRIGGEN PANADOL) & remember 'THIS TOO SHALL PASS'. #untilthencoffeeandwine #andflipteeththebird #iminaglasscageofemotion

A photo posted by Jules Coffey (@newmumstheword) on Sep 12, 2016 at 5:15pm PDT

Ona kaže da je za roditelje teško kada se dete nalazi u takvoj situaciji - tada roditelji osećaju empatiju, tugu, frustraciju.

"Prvo sam je tešila rečima da će svi biti u redu, a onda sam probala da budem i malo odsečnija: 'Prestani da se glupiraš, smiri se, mama ne može više da izdrži'".

"Svim ženama koje prolaze kroz ove trenutke krajnje iscrpljenosti i očaja, kada osećate kao da ćete da puknete, znajte da niste same", ohrabrila je ona ostale mame.

Očigledno je da je ostalim majkama prijalo ovakvo ohrabrenje.

"Trebalo mi je da sada pročitam ovo! Hvala ti što si me podsetila da nisam sama", napisala je jedna žena. "Mislim da ne postoji mama na svetu koja se ne pronalazi u ovome, hvala ti što si to podelila sa nama", dodala je druga.